..land of the beautiful people?
You ARE talking about Kalifornistan?
Griping at FmF about the fit of their pipes is valid..if the pipe is brand new. If it's been smushed as you indicate yours had been..why assume FmF had anything to do with it?
I've bent my pipe into a bad fit and not left a mark on it.
Get youself a couple of long steel bars. Put your 'no fit' pipe on the bike, held only with the springs. Place the silencer where it goes, note what direction the pipe needs to be bent to line up the ends. Take off the pipe, place a steel bar in each end...tweak it.
Do another mock-up..repeat 'til it 'fits'.
It doesn't take much of a bend to make a BIG difference in where the pipe stinger ends up. It may be a bit puzzling how to hold/bend/tweak/force the thing to get the stinger to move in the direction you want it to, but a bit of experimentation will get that sorted out.