
But what I now have is this washer, which is much thicker.

It is a little hard to see what is going on, but the red is the "thickness" and the green is face that the pipe sits flush against. It looks like two rings and a flat surface. It is about 7 or 8mm thick, which is enough the pipe just doesn't sit right and leaks like crazy.
What is going on here? Has anyone seen this before? How the F do I get it out? I know, I know, I need to call the dealer, but I thought I'd ask here especially if I can just get this out my self and replace it with the correct washer.